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title: "31 Years Old"
description: "❤️"
url: "https://blog.gatsbydai.com/1-second-everyday-"
published: "2025-02-10T21:01:00Z"
updated: "2025-07-31T04:58:19Z"
authors: ["Xiaojun Dai"]
---

# 31 Years Old

❤️

I started to capture daily life two years ago - one second everyday. Here is the new one:

[3](https://me.1se.co/watch?v=G33BUYY8l)1 years old

I love how touching it feels when looking back the old year. Sometimes, even the "then-struggles" become the "now-sweet-memories."

I've started learning Cantonese 恭喜发财🧧

I've also started doula & end-of-life-care education & training — two sides of life’s same coin. Both whisper the same truth: being present is its own kind of love.💗

Sigh at these defining moments of life - I guess 30s for me, perhaps, is all about meaning-making, hand in hand with fun and tears.

Ohh, here are the 📚 I finished reading in the past two-ish years 😎I love how much I have read in psychology. 😅

Will keep going^

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